There comes a time in your life when you learn not to trust people. It's hard to believe their words. Words are nothing unless you implement. And many people fail to do so. Most people are inconsistent. Some, even when you think you know them well, are ultimately unknowable. Hence you start to believe that you can never meet someone your kind. Someone who'd be loyal and honest and caring and loving like you. You either love too much or you don't. There's no in between. So when people say they just don't love you the same way, believe them. Believe the fact that the love they had for you is no more and they're only trying to sugarcoat it.
It's hard to believe that, isn't it? Cause you've put in all the effort to keep them. You've given them all the love you ever had. You tried and fought as hard as you could. But the truth is, people change. As distressing as this may sound, sooner or later you just have to accept this. And acceptance is the only thing that can free you from all the sadness and all the anger that is inside of you.
You come to realize that no matter how hard you try, how much you love, some people just can't be right for you. Loss and gain, sadness and happiness, it all goes away with time. They don't stay forever. What they do to us is what remains. But you have to keep going. Be thankful for what they've given, whether it's love, pain, a lesson or just memories to look back at.
You look back on everything you've been through and you realize how much you've grown. How hard things were but somehow you managed to move on from them. You managed to forget about them. And that's a lot to be thankful for.
And the truth is, deep down we're all aware of what will make us happier. But in reality what we really want is unattainable. So we settle for less and stay unhappy. We often become depressed. But there is hope. Prayer. It can change your life in an instant. In order to recover, have faith, it's crucial.
